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Understanding Relapsing-Remitting Disease

Walking through life, we all count on our health being our constant companion. But sometimes, life likes to mix it up and throws curves at us with a relapsing-remitting disease like Multiple Sclerosis or Rheumatoid Arthritis. Far off from the smooth journey, we envisioned, isn’t it? Fear not, my fellow readers. Cassandra is here today to navigate the bumpy ride with you, offering some coping strategies to help sustain your optimism.

Now, what is a relapsing-remitting disease, you ask? It's a condition where your symptoms disappear for a while (you're doing a happy dance!) only to return with startling suddenness, often more severe than before (cancelling that salsa class you signed up for). This is what makes coping with these diseases a tad challenging. But fret not, because where there's a will, right Reader, there's Cassandra's way!

Nurturing a Positive Mindset

Now, diving straight into the coping strategies, we must begin with our inner selves. Your mindset is the pilot of your life's plane, and it’s up to you to decide which way to steer. Choose positivity over negativity, hope over despair, and resilience over surrender. Let's have that everyday mantra of ā€œI am bigger than my diagnosisā€ echo in our minds at all times.

Remember the time when I tripped over a garden gnome in my yard back in Nottingham? One moment I was laughing my heart out with my friends at a bbq party, the next I was a crumbling heap, nursing sprained ankle. Instead of moping about it for the rest of the spring, I took that as an opportunity to finally catch up with my reading list and binge-watch some fantastic TV series. The point is, when life throws lemons, make some delicious, refreshing lemonade!

Getting the Right Support

Another key strategy in our coping toolkit, dear Reader, is acquiring the right support. There's nothing wrong in admitting that you need help sometimes; we all do. That's what friends, family, and professionals are there for. Remember, no decision should be made alone, especially big medical ones. So line up your troops! Gather all the health professionals, counsellors, family members, empathetic friends, and neighbours around you and make them your personal army against the disease.

I’m reminded of the time when my mum was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis. We all rallied around her, each of us taking up different roles. I was the designated researcher, always hunting for new books and articles for better coping strategies, and my little brother was her personal cheerleader, always raring to lift her spirits. The disease was a tough opponent, but our united front made the fight a lot easier.

Connecting to Relevant Resources

The next weapon in our arsenal is 'Resources'. From self-help books written by professionals to online forums and support groups where you can connect with others who are in the same boat, resources are invaluable. Trust me, the moment you'd start reading about the successful life stories of people with similar health conditions, your belief in the possibility of leading a fulfilling life will get a big boost!

And let's not forget our trusty friend 'Technology', offering an array of helpful tools. From mobile applications monitoring your symptoms, managing medication, to providing therapeutic exercises, we are amidst a living digital age making our lives, including dealing with a relapsing-remitting illness, a bit easier.

Focusing on Health and Wellness

The final tactic in our strategy, and certainly not the least, is focusing on overall health and wellness. "A wise woman once said ā€˜an Apple a day keeps the doctor away’, and she wasn't wrong!" Eating a balanced diet, keeping physical activity high on your priority list no matter what, and maintaining your mental well-being are all crucial aspects of coping with a relapsing-remitting disease.

Remember, we have to keep fighting the good fight! Over here in Nottingham, that’s just what we do! We climb mountains, run marathons, laugh till we cry, all while living day-to-day with a relapsing-remitting disease. Life keeps going, and so should we. So, remember to inject a dose of hope, a little humour, and a bucket load of positivity in everything you do. As long as we've got that, dear Reader, we're ready to tackle anything that comes our way.

7 Comments
  • Mariam Kamish
    Mariam Kamish

    I read this and immediately thought: great, another self-help guru with a garden gnome story. šŸ™„ I’ve got MS. My ā€˜lemons’ don’t turn into lemonade. They turn into hospital bills and canceled plans. Thanks for the vibes, but I need real tools, not motivational posters.

  • Manish Pandya
    Manish Pandya

    The part about building a support team really resonated. My family did the same when my aunt got RA-my cousin tracked meds, my mom cooked anti-inflammatory meals, and my dad just sat with her in silence when she didn’t want to talk. Sometimes, presence > advice.

  • liam coughlan
    liam coughlan

    Honestly? The tone here feels a bit performative. Like someone wrote this for a blog award, not for people actually struggling. But the resources section? Solid. I’ll take the apps and forums over the garden gnome metaphor any day.

  • Maeve Marley
    Maeve Marley

    I’m going to be real-this post made me cry a little, not because it’s perfect, but because it’s the first time in months someone didn’t say ā€˜just stay positive’ and actually talked about the logistics of living with this. The part about tech tools? Game-changer. I’ve been using MyTherapy for meds and it’s saved me from 3 flare-ups already. Also, if you’re in Ireland or the US and want to join a low-key Zoom group for people who just need to vent without being fixed? DM me. I’ll send the link. No pressure. Just… you’re not alone.

  • James Gonzales-Meisler
    James Gonzales-Meisler

    Grammatically, this is a mess. 'Cassandra is here today'-who is Cassandra? The author? The narrator? It’s unclear. Also, 'an Apple a day'-capital A? Really? And the anecdotal evidence is thin. This reads like a college freshman’s persuasive essay. Still, the resource list is decent.

  • Navin Kumar Ramalingam
    Navin Kumar Ramalingam

    Wow. So you’re telling me the solution to chronic illness is… reading books and watching Netflix? Groundbreaking. I’m sure my 72-year-old neighbor with MS really appreciates your ā€˜funny garden gnome’ analogy. Meanwhile, I’m on my third steroid cycle this year. Keep the platitudes. I’ll take the science.

  • Shawn Baumgartner
    Shawn Baumgartner

    This is textbook victim-blaming wrapped in glitter. You’re romanticizing chronic illness as a ā€˜journey’ while ignoring systemic failures-healthcare access, disability discrimination, insurance denials. Your ā€˜army’ metaphor is toxic. This isn’t a war to win. It’s a life to manage with inadequate support. And your ā€˜apple a day’ quote? That’s not wisdom, it’s medical gaslighting. Real people don’t ā€˜bounce back’ from flares. We survive them. And we’re tired of being told to ā€˜stay positive’ while our bodies betray us daily.

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